
Navigating a child custody dispute can feel overwhelming, especially when you are worried about losing quality time with your children or your say in major decisions like schooling and healthcare. You deserve a clear, steady advocate who understands what is at stake for your family.
At Straw-Boone Doheny Banks Mudd Catalano & McKinney, PLLC, our child custody attorneys have served families in Oldham County and across Kentucky for over 30 years. Three of our lawyers are Fellows of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, a distinction limited to roughly 1% of licensed attorneys in each state and reserved for lawyers with at least a decade of family law practice. We combine deep legal knowledge with a practical, empathetic approach to help you secure a strong, active role in your children’s lives.
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Every custody case looks different, and the right approach for yours depends on what you are facing. We represent parents in La Grange and throughout Oldham County on original custody determinations, modifications when circumstances change, and disputes over parenting time, holidays, and school decisions.
We also step in when one parent wants to relocate out of state with a child, when a grandparent or de facto custodian is seeking custody, and when a custody case is tangled up with a protective order or a difficult divorce. Thomas E. Banks II, one of our partners and a Fellow of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, has spent years studying the psychology behind high-conflict custody disputes, including parental alienation, and has presented on that topic to attorneys across the country. That background matters when a custody case turns into a dispute over who the children trust, not just where they sleep on a Tuesday night.
Kentucky starts most custody cases from the same place. Under KRS 403.270, judges decide custody based on what serves the child’s best interest, and the law presumes that joint custody and roughly equal parenting time is best unless a parent proves otherwise.
Before weighing any other factor, the court must first consider any allegations of domestic violence or child abuse and put written findings on the record about how those allegations affect the child. If a domestic violence order has been entered against a parent, the joint-custody presumption does not apply to that parent.
That presumption sounds simple until you are the parent trying to prove otherwise, or the parent facing exaggerated claims meant to shift the schedule against you. Beyond that threshold step, the judge weighs each parent’s role in the child’s daily life, the child’s relationship with each parent, and the child’s own preference where appropriate. Without a lawyer who knows how Oldham County judges weigh those factors, you could end up with a schedule that does not reflect the parent you are.
This reflects Kentucky law as amended effective July 15, 2026.
Child custody cases in La Grange are heard at Oldham County Family Court, inside the Oldham County Judicial Center at 100 West Main Street. The courthouse dates back to 1828, making it the second oldest courthouse still standing in Kentucky, and it has heard family disputes from Oldham County parents for generations.
Divorce and custody motions are typically scheduled on set Fridays each month, with a strict deadline for filing paperwork the Friday before. Missing that window can cost you real time on the calendar. Once a custody case is filed, the court usually sets a temporary hearing first, followed by mediation or a pretrial conference, and then a final hearing if the parents still cannot agree. We prepare every filing to meet Oldham County’s deadlines and walk you through each hearing so you are never sitting in that courtroom without knowing what happens next.
Most cases start with a temporary hearing, where the judge sets a short term parenting schedule while the case moves forward. Bring records that show your involvement in your child’s school, medical care, and daily routine. We walk you through exactly what the judge will ask before you go in.
Kentucky judges first consider any domestic violence or abuse allegations, then weigh each parent’s role in the child’s life, the child’s relationships, and the presumption that joint custody and close to equal parenting time serves the child unless that presumption is overcome. The outcome depends heavily on the evidence presented, not just on who files first.
Yes. Kentucky law allows a parent to ask the court to modify custody or parenting time when circumstances change enough, such as a move, a change in a child’s needs, or a parent who has stopped following the current schedule. We review your situation and tell you plainly whether a modification is worth pursuing.
Kentucky does not have a single relocation statute. Instead, a move that would disrupt the current schedule is usually handled through the custody modification process, and the relocating parent typically needs the other parent’s written agreement or a court order before moving a child a significant distance. These cases move fast, and the filing deadlines do not wait for you to feel ready.
In limited situations, yes. Kentucky recognizes de facto custodians and allows certain relatives to seek custody or visitation when specific legal requirements are met. We can tell you early on whether your situation qualifies, so you are not waiting on false hope.
Rarely in the early stages. If a child’s preference matters to the case, the judge may speak with them privately in chambers rather than in open court, especially the older the child is. We tell you upfront whether that is likely in your case.
You can file a motion asking the court to enforce the existing order, and a pattern of violations can affect a later modification request. Keep a record of what is happening and reach out before the pattern goes on much longer.
Costs vary based on how contested your case is and how much of it needs to go in front of a judge. We discuss fees openly at your first meeting, so you know what to expect before we move forward together.
If your question is not listed here, contact us and we will walk through your specific situation with you.
You do not have to piece this together on your own. Contact our team to schedule a consultation with a La Grange child custody lawyer who can look at your situation, explain what Oldham County Family Court will expect from you, and help you get ready before your next hearing arrives.
With deep roots in Louisville, you can trust our history of success. Our attorneys are adept at navigating the delicate balance between vigorous advocacy and the preservation of family harmony. If you are facing family law concerns, contact Straw-Boone Doheny Banks
Mudd Catalano & McKinney, PLLC.
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